The Wateringwell is a Christian faith-based inspirational platform to connect, motivate, encourage and empower divorced women and single mothers.
With grace, empathy, and authenticity, we engage with our community to fulfill our vision.
The Wateringwell’s Vision
- To form a safe community for divorced women and single mothers to connect
- Motivate our community through a coaching membership site.
- To encourage our members to discover their unique gifts, talents, and abilities.
- To provide the support and resources to equip women to be self-sufficient in God, independent, and productive God-led leaders of their homes.
God is first in all that we do here at The Wateringwell as many biblical truths are relevant in this space. Our content is biblically supported and frequently referenced.
Together with scripture, we also believe in the power of testimony. God’s word is applicable to all of us and as God’s vessels, with unique characters and experiences, we welcome the sharing of stories to encourage one another.
I share many of my own experiences in my blog posts, which combine true-life examples and biblical wisdom.
John 7:38 reads “Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, streams of living water will flow from within him”.
The Theme of Water
The Wateringwell is a representation of the ancient wells talked about in the Bible. Water and wells, as discussed many times in scripture, were the perfect analogy for what I had in mind for a blog. For more about the background and journey to The Wateringwell, see our About page here.
The theme of water is carried throughout the blog because of its calming, tranquil, and peaceful effects. Water is an essential and integral part of our lives, a resource for survival. The Bible mentions it at least 722 times in scripture, from the opening lines of Genesis to the final chapter in Revelations. The various forms of water are used many times as an analogy.
Song of Songs 4:15 “You are a garden fountain, a wall of flowing water streaming down from Lebanon”.
Purpose of Biblical Wells
Wells or cisterns, as they were sometimes called, are often mentioned in the Bible. In Biblical times, wells were a meeting place and the center of the community. It was the duty of the women to go and collect water for the household, a practice that is still carried out in some places today. The wells were a place for the women to gather, talk and socialize, much like we do today when we meet our girlfriends at a coffee shop. Our girlfriends are an important pillar of our support systems, especially as single women.
A place of learning
These gatherings at the wells were also a place for learning. Through their duties and interactions, young women were taught customs, manners, and responsibility from other women in the community.
The well was a site for divine revelation too as some significant events took place at or near a well. Abraham’s servant met Rebekah at the well when he was seeking a wife for Isaac (Genesis 24:15-18) And who could forget the encounter that Jesus had with a Samaritan woman at a well? (John 4:1-26)
In Genesis 21:19, when Hagar had used the last of her water and was filled with despair, God opened her eyes so that she saw the well that was right next to her. The water saved her life. So consumed by her pain, she hadn’t seen it before. This so often happens to us when we are depleted of energy and exhausted, we don’t see the solution even when it is right in front of us.
Landmarks and Hiding places
In some instances wells were used as landmarks to guide weary travelers or as hiding places, to provide safety.
In fact, wells were so important, there was sometimes conflict and contention over them. (Genesis 21: 25-31 and Genesis 26:15-22). If you wanted to defeat your enemy, you blocked or poisoned their well. Abraham had to barter with Abimelech to get his well back and to this day the site at Beersheba is a tourist attraction.
Similarly, in our lives, the enemy tries to hinder us by distracting us off from God and blocking us off from the things that sustain us.
Functions of Biblical water
In the Bible, God uses water as an analogy to describe the salvation He promises us, through His son Jesus. (John 4:5-15). Jesus, (the life-giving water) died so that we may be cleansed of our sins and saved into eternal life.
God restores our souls through His Holy Spirit. When we are parched and dry from the trials of life, He provides rejuvenating water in those barren and desolate places. Isaiah 43:19,20 “I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland…to give drink to my people, my chosen”.
When we feel overwhelmed, in trouble, and drowning in our circumstances, God reaches down from on high and rescues us. “He draws us out of deep waters”. 2 Samuel 22:17.
The Bible says we will be refreshed and renewed. Refreshing comes through God’s word, prayer, and in His presence. This image is captured so beautifully in Psalm 23:2 “He leads me beside quiet waters”.
There is little that both soothes and revitalizes quite like a fountain, waterfall, river, or ocean. I know when life gets too chaotic, I yearn to sit quietly beside a stream or pond. Don’t you?
Our Personal Wells
Just like physical wells, our personal wells, in other words, the resources we draw our energy from, can be tangible and/or spiritual. The spiritual wells that replenish and fulfill us may be Church life, God’s word, prayer, family, friends, or even our work, depending on what it is. Physical wells are namely the food we eat, relaxation time, and a healthy lifestyle.
Of course, there are also the ‘bad wells’, which are areas of our lives that have become dry, tainted, or poisoned and not good for our well-being. They present in various forms and may even masquerade as something good, but at the end of the day leave us depleted and stressed out. It is important that we are mindful of where and what we are drawing from.
We deal with all these topics in the context of the blog.
How is your well?
Jesus is the ultimate well from which we draw our strength.
“Whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” John 4:14.
You may rest in that blessed promise. No matter how dry we are, He will always provide refreshment and the nourishment we need.
God warns us in Jeremiah 2:13 “My people have committed two sins: they have forsaken me, the spring of living water, and have dug their own cisterns (wells), broken cisterns, that can hold no water”.
We are often responsible for getting ourselves into predicaments. The good news is that God does not hold it against us and is always there to give us a hand up and out of the miry pit.
Where to Start
The Wateringwell has 6 basic categories-or maybe we should call them wells :). They are loosely based on Zig Ziglar’s wellness wheel and include Spiritual, Health, Finance, Relationships, Leisure, and Self. Follow the links in the top menu.
I would suggest you start with the Check Me Out Challenge post to establish which wells may require a bit of attention before they run dry.
Alternatively, you can download the questionnaires by filling out the subscription form below.
Make sure your wells are full before you hit crisis mode. Prepare in advance. Surround yourself with healthy wells and fill them with all that is good and pleasing to God.
Who/What are the wells in your life? In other words, where do you draw your energy from on a daily basis? Is it God, a person, a group of people, or an activity? Ask for God’s help and list everything that comes to mind. Write good or bad in a column next to each answer. For clarity, you may want to use a different colored pen. Do you have more positive, healthy influences in your life? Or are they more negative and draining?
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